Since chamber dimensions won't change, you probably won't go wrong ordering the largest diameter that will chamber freely. However, if by chance your barrel gets too large, neck turning the brass to allow slightly larger diameter bullets may well be worth the effort, in which case waiting to see what the bore diameter turns out to be after lapping may be a wise choice.
I don't believe Iv'e mentioned it before on this forum, but when the case neck is to be used as the bullet alignment, as I prescribe for 45-70 , 30-30 and all similar long necked cartrides where the rifles have short throats, uniform neck thickness can make quite a dramatic difference in accuracy, if a lot of brass is worse than normal. Forester makes an excellent hand turning tool for about $50. It will cure tight neck throatings as well as brass with neck thickness not uniform. Most brass I've measured is out .001 or .002 thousandths inch, which doesn't seem to hurt, but if out more, it is wise to turn the brass, which is far more precise than inside neck reaming.