Thanks again everybody for the advice. Rugerno3, I'm kicking myself for not shooting the test loads over my chrony, it might have been revealing, as it is I'm not shooting any more of those loads for obvious reasons.
I didnt realize 414 developed pressure quicker than some other powders, I have data for 3031, BL-C2, and H-335, all off the loadata site,of which i have a subscription. I think I may back off 2 grains from those starting loads but am leery of over reducing charges. This time I'll haul the chrony out and maybe then know where I'm at. I wish I could find some Varget data, as that is what I have on hand and it seems to work well in the 17 Rem but so far no luck in finding data for 17-223. I'm tempted to reduce 17 rem data wich in theory should work, but I am not ready to go down that road at this point without some other input.
I've also read on the Saubier site (which was recommended to me as a good source of small bore info) that the rem7 primer is designed for the 17 rem and handles pressure spikes better but i have no way to confirm that, but may try that as well. But to me a thicker primer cup only would be treating the pressure symtom, not fixing it.