I own gun safes, but I decided it was easier to gun-proof my kids than try to child-proof a gun. They were all raised around guns, got to shoot frequently, (sometimes more than they wanted to
) and were told that any time they wanted to handle a firearm all they had to do was ask. No forbidden fruit, no stupid rules. No strangers in the house. All guns were presumed to be loaded, because they always were. When I go home at night these days it's just me and two cats, and there are loaded guns stashed in every room. I live in a dangerous part of town, and nearly all the loaded guns hold the same ammo, for familiarity and consistency. My duty gun also stays close by, but not on my duty belt. And there are also speedloaders in every room for the revolvers I use. A burglar would have a hard time finding the guns, but they are all a few feet away from wherever I might be in the house. No paranoia, just an understanding of my surroundings, and the knowledge that you still can't make an appointment for an emergency!
Papajohn