Steve,
Without trying to push another pistol off on you, let me just answer your question directly.
The P-95 Rugers are a lot of gun for the money and will serve well in your application. I bought one for my wife back in the early 90s. She liked the big blocky slide. She has limited hand strength, and could cycle the action by grabbing hold of that big wide slide. She ended up with a smaller gun for her carry, and the Ruger was relegated to loaner status in IDPA. I lost count of the number of rounds thru that gun, in the hands of a couple dozen individuals. It has never failed to operate as advertised. What can I say, multiple shooters, and a variety of cheap ammo, zero failures. Sounds like a bargin to me!!
Savage