You have things pretty close, but are technically off about lubrication. The lube doesn't just leach out, but upon being engraved by the rifling and sized down a bit on entering the barrel, the 'sizing' deformation causes hydrolic pressure on the lube contained the the grooves, thus applying it with considerable force against the barrel. Under heavy chamber pressure and bullet obturation in the base area, this hydrolic pressure come up pretty close to chamber pressure, which at max in the magnum handguns is pushing 40,000 psi. Compare that to standard operating pressure for the hydrolics in most heavy equipment, which is 2,500 psi, and you'll understand that bullet lubricant needs to be some heavy duty stuff!
Your thoughts of working up a jacketed bullet load to find maximum pressure are correct, but only if you want to get maximum power from your cast bullets, which you don't if wanting 1300 fps from a 4 inch revolver. I'm assuming you are talking about my 180 gr FN 38 caliber bullet, gas checked, and with LBT lubricant. If so, just load it to your desired 1300 fps from the revolver and set the sights on your rifle to where the group lands with the same load. The Rossi will handle anything the revolver will, but a 1300 fps revolver load will probably not give quite 1800 fps in the longer barrel. Don't hang your hat on a preconcieved optimum velocity from the rifle. No deer will stand up against a 1600 fps load with that bullet. It kills great at 1200 fps, and very well at your desired 1300 fps revolver speed..
If you intend to use any other, bullet design, or lubricant, by all means develop a pressure standard as you describe and stay within that limit with the cast bullet you choose, but also be forwarned. You won't get 1800 fps from the Rossi with any other 180 gr cast bullet design that I'm aware of, nor with any other lube than LBT, without getting excessive pressures.
Accurate 9 will give a bit quieter loads in the revolver than 296 or H110, but the latter will give the highest velocity at equal pressure, and with this near magnum velocity, the difference in sound isn't important, as either load will damage your hearing without ear protection, with extensive shooting. This last tidbit of sound information pertains to the revolver. My wife calls her 357 Marlin the 'quiet gun'. She thinks she can kill anything up to elk with it, and hasn't been proven wrong yet!.