I have and love six of those dies. Adjusting them is done by results, not following instructions verbatim. The instructions only get me in the right ball park! I simply check the bullet fit and adjust up or down a quarter turn or less until it's the way I want it. Leaning on the lever too much WILL strip the threads in the die's aluminum top cap, it is made to be the "fuse" that limits excess pressure instead of otherwise harming the die or press. The brand or type of press matters not at alll.
We MUST put sufficient pressure on the lever to actually compress the neck around that mandrel if we are to get the needed reduction in size. It's a balancing act and there's a learning curve in developing a feel for what we are doing. No instructions to "touch here and turn 1.87 turns there", etc, can automatically insure that things will magically work. We must tweak the die and try the fit until it's right. Then, adjusted correctly, it matters little if the lever cams over or not.
A .221" mandrel should get you normal neck tension for a .224 bullet. The brass will spring back a bit, frequently about .001", and normal neck tension should be no more than .002" below bullet diameter, otherwise the bullet actually serves as an expander as it's seated. A bullet "expander" often bends the neck a tiny bit and ruins part of what the Lee collet die strives to accomplish so making the mandrel too small defeats proper results.
Anyone "polishing" down the Lee mandrel should also understand that its diameter below the actual neck portion needs to be the same size or, better yet, a bit smaller. Otherwise the lower part works as an expander when the sized neck is withdrawn.