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Offline goodwrench6710

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Getting separated
« on: August 29, 2007, 01:21:35 PM »
Things at my house haven't been good for a long time. Last night we had a talk because I couldn't stand the tension between us. I asked if we could do some counseling & she said she wants to be separated. The bad thing is I am going to be staying with my dad. He has no phone, cable, etc.... I won't have internet except at work & I'll have to try to sneak a post in here & there. Just wanted to let you guys know, I didn't fall off the face of the earth.
 Larry  :'(

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Re: Getting separated
« Reply #1 on: August 29, 2007, 01:34:32 PM »
I'm sorry Goodwrench.  I hope the separation is short and tension resolved to your satisfaction.

Life has it's ups......and it's downs.......

Hang in there........this will work itself out and everything will soon be fine again.........
Keep the faith.......
"Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Tolerance in the face of tyranny is no virtue."
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Re: Getting separated
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2007, 03:21:29 PM »
definitely hard to adjust after separation,but the road will smooth out with time.
Dan Deluca aka "warrior1" has passed away.  Dan was a frequent poster here and on several other sites.  He passed away on 12/29/08 from a massive heart attack. RIP Dan.

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Re: Getting separated
« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2007, 05:13:48 AM »
Good luck.  Hope for the best; plan for the worst.  Get a counselor and hook up with a lawyer.  You don't need to do anything except get your name in his hat and let him give you some basic ground rules of what you can and can't do.  If she wants a separation, move ALL of your stuff out of the house.  It's easier to move it back in than it is to come back and find half your stuff has been sold.