GB is right. I don't know about the "expert" thing, but I've definitely popped my fair share of deer with this caliber. It's actually become my all time favorite caliber for deer, and I'm guessing at this point I've likely killed more deer with the 357 magnum than any other caliber.
I just got in from working 12 hours in the sun, so I'm just gonna give you a condensed version of what you need to know.
I'd venture to say that "any" 158g SP would work good on deer. I've seen the results of several different 158g SP's on deer, and they've all been pretty consistent from my observations. The reason I preach on the Remington's so much is because they not only do everything you need as far as terminal performance, but they're very accurate to boot. They're phenomenally accurate in a lot of rifles, and revolvers! I've shot very expensive bullets that, although they shot good, couldn't hold a light to these bullets. Accuracy(extreme accuracy) in these rifles depends almost entirely on case prep though, so unless you're taking the proper pains with your brass, you may find it hard to see the differences in a lot of bullet designs.
Bottom line; order some Remington 158g SP's, work up a good stout load pushing that bullet to around 1700+ fps(muzzle), and keep your ranges within 100 yards. Put the shot where it needs to go, and you'll have a deer on the ground in very short order.
PS: If you don't have time for load development, go find a box of Mag-Tech 158g SP's(they're awesome, and cheap), or pretty much any other 158g SP factory load, and you'll be fine.