Shilo, Have you talked to Aimpoint yet? When I had my earlier troubles as described above, they replaced both shattered sights without question. While clearly the Aimpoint was unable to take the Desert Eagle recoil, the third one has worked great on my Ithaca slug gun. I didn't go into all the details, but the Desert Eagle also had a problem with jams and ejecting empties through your hair or bouncing them off your forehead. It ended up going back to Desert Eagle where they ended up changing the tolerance of the gas piston and port. They took a few thousanths off, but I don't recall if it was from the port or from the piston. They stated the slide velocity was too high, causing the failures to eject, or violent ejection. After that, it didn't seem to slam as hard on recoil, and didn't jam or hit me with the empties anymore. I never did try the Aimpoint back on it again though. Considering your experience, it sounds like that was a wise choice.
The thing that still has me puzzled to this day is that the Aimpoint was promoted by Magnum Research and even sold through their catalogue as an optional accessory for the Desert Eagle pistols...