Nonya, doesn't that chip on your shoulder ever get heavy? jgalar didn't attack you, he tried to lighten the conversation. When some one doesn't agree with some one, it is not necessarily calling them a liar, or questioning their integrity. It is however disagreeing, with their opinion. It isn't law that any one has to agree with any one including you. Redhawk1, and jh45gun were criticized heavily by YOU, for doing precisely what YOU are doing now.
You are swinging at anyone that comes near you, and it cannot be resolved, and will not go away, until you yourself, calm down, and let it.