O.K., guys. Here's the word from "the sissy". I finally broke down and put a "Sorbothane" aftermarket butt pad on my Howa .338 Winchester. I can't believe how that wonderful material domesticates a stout kicker. My rifle is now actually pleasant to shoot even off the bench...and with stoutly loaded, 250 gr. bullets! If you find yourself dreading to pull the trigger, it's gonna affect your shooting-count on it! Thankfully, this modern material ("sorbothane") which comes packaged in several different products, allows us to have our cake and eat it too.
If you get a chance, shoot someone's rifle so equipped and see what you think!