Boy, does this thread resonate with me! Savage (above) was the first to speak for us OLD guys who started in with revolvers, and stll feel most comfortable shooting them for fun or hunting. Until yesterday, though, I agreed with many experts who choose the self-loader for 'serious social purposes'. I've read and seen techniques of loading, clearing and managing the auto one handed if the shooter should be incapacitated, and they all seemed reasonable.
But I live in Maine. And we've had a lot of snow and ice this winter. Two days ago, I slipped and fell on ice in my yard. Broke my left wrist in several places. First time for this kind of incapacity. Left (thank goodness, it WAS the left) hand and forearm in a heavy cast. No way can I manage to work the actions of my Kahr or 1911, or even the Ruger target guns.
As long as this cast is on, and maybe for a lot longer if the wrist is lamed up, it'll have to be revolvers for me. I'm just thankful that I HAVE revolvers suitable for a cripple's use, in the gun safe. I see a lot of men who list their firearms on their posts, and no wheel guns among them.
my advice: pass up your next dinner-and-a-movie date, and buy a police surplus S&W .38, at least. Shoot it enough to get familiar with the management of the revolver. It's always good to have alternatives available.