Totally agree with the drift of all posts. Just my 2 cents:
When I lived in Maine, my wife shot my Model 19 S&W 357mag with a fair degree of proficiency. I gave it to her. At 5'4" and 135 pounds, she didn't care for my 41Mag RBH, but preferred my rifles and that 357Mag for hunting. Moving to Wyoming, the 357Mag was not legal to hunt with so became a non-issue. She still didn't like my 41Mag so stayed with the rifles, namely my 257 Roberts. On a whim, about a year or so ago, I bought a Ruger Bisley Blackhawk in 45 Colt, for me to embark on a new adventure in handloading. Really? Never happened! She shot it, loved it, claimed it for her own!! It's the 71/2" blue model, and she handles it like a kitchen spatula - totally naturally. I offered to have the barrel cut back for easier handling and she refused the offer. All she asked for was a pretty crossdraw holster. I had one custom made with her initials on it! You bet! Get HER what SHE wants that is legal for what she intends to use it for. In the long run, price becomes a non-issue, so don't let that constrict her choice by very much. Lots of stuff is available and bargains are there if you are patient. Be happy she wants to share the adventure with you!!
Regards,
Sweetwater