.009" seems excessive to me. Most of the guns I have .003" or .004" difference between fired and loaded rounds. The main thing is how does it shoot? If it shoots well, then who cares? If you neck size only the body should hold it centered in the chamber. I would neck size only, unless you have to full length size. If you do full length size I would back off the die, until the round just chambered and do not size it any more. If you do indeed have excessive head space, then you will stretch the case every time you push the shoulder back. All of the case growth comes from the web area and you will get head separations there, eventually. The less you size, the better off you are. You may have to anneal case necks once in a while because of the working of the necks so much. Good Luck and good shooting.