Mike
The problem with Industry Standards is that there may be 20 diffrent ways to get to the same end .
Dealing with it is the easy part , one load at a time .
Honestly it comes with experience , and time , when I first started to load my own the numbers were kinda overwhelming , so I took one round and worked from there , once I had a descent handle on that one then I went to another .
Over the years I learned what some powders worked better with certain rounds or families of rounds , like
IMR4350 works very well in the 25/06 , 270 , 30/06 .
Unique does a wonderful job with cast pistol bullets and some jacketed pistol ones too .
I have just started to branch out into some of the powders that were either not available to me before or that I just never considered like the VV and Ramshot stuff .
The best advice I can give is to be patient , there are just too many things to try and learn over night , start in one place and work from there .
Richard