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For hobbyist interest, the best deals are from surfing online. You can pick up items for a system here and there pretty inexpensive (relatively). SOlar cost about $9 - 15 / Watt, so it is not cheap in general.
For a serious grid-tied system, you need a local installer if you intend to collect tax credits and gain local incentives as it is paperwork intensive and has to meet codes stringently to tie to an on-grid house.
for off grid cabin systems, it is a little less stringent, but requires different equipment.
SOlar electric is not good for any power intenive jobs (heating, running an HVAC unit, stove etc). They can run a hole house worth of stuff except these items. The panels cost more than local electric, so it does not make sense to add them to an on grid house, unless you get the tax credits to pay for half. At that point you are a mini-power company selling electric backl into the grid.
For off grid, you need to figure on your load (microwave, fridge, lights). saving power is the first rule (use fluorescent, not incadesent, buy a better fridge or freezer etc). Then multiply your load by (#hours a day run / 24HRS). This is your continuous load so if your fridge is 100W and it runs about 12hours a day that is a 50W load. You then multiply that load by 10. That is appx how much solar it takes to run your equipment, so a 50W laod needs 500W of solar appx. at $10 a watt thats $5k, not cheap unless your power company says its 50k to run power to your shack in the middle of no-where.
A solar home in the woods you would live in year round would run about 30k, a weekend place would be about 10k.