My personal preference would be the S & W 44 mag Mountain Gun.
I have a blued Mountain Gun that I purchased last summer. It looks fantastic, shoots great and the recoil is negligible.
I also have a S & W 460 PC 7 1/2", 629 8 3/8", 629 Classic 6 1/2", 629 Hunter Plus 7 1/2" and a 60 Pro 357 3".
The worst recoil, by far, of the bunch is the 60 Pro. It almost hurts after a couple of cylinder's of full house 357's. However, it is a pleasure to shoot with 38 +P's.
All of my Smiths have excellent triggers and shoot great. I cannot say that for some of the other brands I have or had.