Wow, No one has posted.
Ok, I'll start this off by saying that although EVERYONE refers to this man as Robert E. Lee; in his life time he and no one in his family did so. He always signed off as RE Lee to his wife, children and his friends.
One of his sisters NEVER spoke to him after he defected to the Southern cause; she remained on the Northern side til her dying day.
Just what do you think his friends called him? Bob? Or maybe RE?