Well, I will tell you that I subscribe to Handloader magizine. From the articles I've read concerning reloading with Vihtavuori powders, they have always recommend that you never use magnum primers.
In the 4 years that I've loaded my 44 magnum, and the 2 years that I've loaded my 357 magnum with N-110, I have never used magnum primers and I have always had consistent ignition and consistent velocity.
Now, concerning the loads listed in the Vihtavouri load book as compared to others (and I will use my Hornady book as an example) I have found the same issue. The maximum load listed in the Hornady book for some bullet weights are the starting minimum load amounts from the Vihtavouri book.
All I can tell you is that I have "started" with the Vihtavouri book minimum loads, and then worked up from there, looking for pressure signs. However, once my 200 grain bullets get around 1500fps from my 6" Smith revolver, I'm pretty much happy with that. That will kill a whitetail at 100 yards.
Dave