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Offline DDZ

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How To Dance In The Rain
« on: May 18, 2009, 12:24:33 PM »
Here is something that I read a while back and saved it. It kind of explains what true love is. Just like the love that God has for us.



How To Dance In The Rain
 
 It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his
 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in
 a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
 
 
 I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would
 be over an hour before someone would to able to see him.
 
 I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy
 with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well
 healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to
 remove his sutures and redress his wound.
 
 While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another
 doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The
 gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat
 breakfast with his wife.
 
 I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there
 for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we
 talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied
 that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in
 five years now.

 I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning,
 even though she doesn't know who you are?'
 He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me,
 but I still know who she is.'
 
 I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my
 arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.' True
 love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of
 all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
 The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of
 everything; they just make the best of everything they have.  'Life
 isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.'
 
Those people who will not be governed by God will be ruled by tyrants.    Wm. Penn

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Re: How To Dance In The Rain
« Reply #1 on: May 18, 2009, 12:35:21 PM »
Wow, that is a very nice, inspirational story. I try to find the good in everyone, and I truly believe there are still some people left in the world like that old gentleman. The story made me feel kind of good.
Mike

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Re: How To Dance In The Rain
« Reply #2 on: May 23, 2009, 06:21:58 PM »
I'm a Pastor and served is a small rural church in Nebr. and had a man drive over 40 mile one way each day to see his wife and feed her lunch and comb her hair. She didn't reconize him but he traveled because she was there and he wasn't able to care for her at home any more. She died one month after he passed away. His love never wavered.