Sourdough-I "echo" your recollection of presidential historal events. Of course, it may be because I have a very similar Democrat up-bring in the same time period. In my home state, if you weren't a registered Democrat, you couldn't vote in the "primary's" because there were no Republicans running. I never had an idea what a "liberal" was until I had one screaming obsenities at me when I came home in uniform to San Francisco in '70. When I began to pay attention to history and politics, I found the events and outcomes defined the presidents, not the other way around.
Reagan was a "standout" (IMO) because his principles and character reflected his love and devotion to this country. His dedication to the "office" transcended political parties and made most of us "proud to be an American". He had a Democrat House and Senate, yet was able to stand against the "Soviets", while many of his political foes were ready to "do him in" if his policies failed. He was not "infallable" but an "honest broker".
I think JFK had the potential to be a great president judging by his enacted economic and security policies (Bay of Pigs, excepted). He might have reached his potential if he had never accepted the invitation to Dallas in a convertible. (Then again, he had as many medical problems as he had "lady problems" that might have put him out of commission eventually during his first "tenure".)
I'm no fan of FDR, who made a "Depression" out of a deep "Ressession" and gave the "Soviets" eastern Europe as a reward for sacrificing their soldiers on the "eastern front". He enacted security policies during WWII that makes Bush's "Patriot Act" look like a minor infraction of freedom of speech, while controlling and restricting most economic activities most of us take for granted, such as fuel, commodities, and personal articles.
I don't think there was ever a president that escaped the "looking glass" of seeing what they accomplished after their policies took effect the next "decade" or two. Whether it was "Ike" with the "National Road System" (good), or Carter with the "Department of Education" (bad), each president had their "strong points" as well as "weak". I can recall my Dad making remarks about Ike spending too much time in a "golf cart", while he thought "Harry" always told like it was no matter what (he wouldn't have survived today!) Old Harry had "grit", but his final dual prong attack in Korea was almost a total diaster for our Armed Forces.
I do not recall any of the past presidents "purposely" try to destroy our country. Even Carter truly thought he could deal with the most dangerous of dictators in the name of "peace" (the Ahiatolla just didn't agree). Carter even make Clinton look "passable" (it's even hard for me to say that
. The present office holder makes the whole "bunch" look pretty "patriotic".
Now Grover Cleveland is another subject I had little knowledge of, Skunk. I will have to "study up" on your favorite.