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Offline zombiewolf

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #30 on: May 27, 2009, 12:44:09 PM »
I tried to quit last year.Told the wife"More sex or cigarettes"!!She got up and said"What brand?"Still smoking.Slow

Harsh, Man!  :D


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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #31 on: May 27, 2009, 01:59:50 PM »
If ya wanna quit smokin, then quit smokin. It isn't that big a deal. Playing like your quiting is just that. Playin. If you don't want to quit, or think you can't then by all means KEEP SMOKIN. It will save more oxygen for the rest of us when you finally try to quit smokin yourself to death.
This ain't rocket science, it's a matter of smokin or not smokin. It's like sayin you want to lose weight but can't. Same principal. Good grief stop puttin stuff in your mouth. It's all about SELF CONTROL or LACK OF IT.


Not sure smoking is quite the same as over eating.Eating is a natural thing.....Smoking is not!

I quit cold turkey 20 yrs ago. The day I quit, I had a fever and my lungs were congested, and here I was trying to force smoke into them!
I said a prayer, and threw them out of my truck window. Never fired up another, and never had the desire to.
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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #32 on: May 27, 2009, 02:31:15 PM »
thanks for the replys. i did not have one craving today, and had the same aggravation today as yesterday. and by the way mr.Dee i will be quitting friday!

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #33 on: May 28, 2009, 03:49:20 AM »
I was a pack and a half a day man ,started smoking a corn cob pipe at age ten ,and cigaretts by age 12. Had been smoking for 23 yrs .On my sons 5th birthday I asked him what he wanted. He looked up at me and said, "I want you to quit smoking dad."  That was 24 yrs ago,and I've never touched another cigarette.Did it cold turkey. But I must admit, the first 3 years were the hardest.`
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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #34 on: May 28, 2009, 12:20:03 PM »
Well, Hummmmm.
I smoke a pack a day. I don't smoke out of habits. I smoke when I have the desire.
I quit for ten years.
It was the worse ten years of my life.
I never stopped wanting a cig.
I tolerate all the schmidt given me and reply thanks for the opinion I didn't want or ask for and because of that you can go to hell.
That seems to stop the conversation.
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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #35 on: May 28, 2009, 03:01:43 PM »
Well, Hummmmm.
I smoke a pack a day. I don't smoke out of habits. I smoke when I have the desire.
I quit for ten years.
It was the worse ten years of my life.
I never stopped wanting a cig.
I tolerate all the schmidt given me and reply thanks for the opinion I didn't want or ask for and because of that you can go to hell.
That seems to stop the conversation.
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Power to ya' buddy!


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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #36 on: May 28, 2009, 03:40:27 PM »
Started smoking when I was 16, and worked in a restaurant. Smoked Kool Milds. Busboys and waitress's kept buming smokes, as the owner didn't want me to put them in my shirt pocket, as it looked bad. So I put them on a shelf in the back room.  Didn't take 2 weeks of that, and switched over to Camel non-filters. Even my dad, who smoked Pall Mall's, didn't want to bum any of them. Smoked them into my mid 30's, then switched over to cigars. After I got married, my wife, who smoked cigarette's, since we decided to have children, both of us quit.
I do believe, since for many years I smoked cigars, I very seldom inhaled, it made it easier for me to quit. I don't have any urge to smoke a cigarette, but when I smell a cigar, it makes my nose twitch.
When we got married, my wife and I, for our honeymoon, took Amtrak across country. They had a smoking car. So on the first day, after breakfast, both of us headed up to the smoking car. We weren't there 5 minute's, when a porter came by, and told me I had to put out the cigar. I thought he was being funny. Nope. Somebody had complained. I laughed, looked around at everybody smoking cigarette's, put out my stoggie, and left. Didn't need the audacity.  gypsyman
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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #37 on: May 29, 2009, 02:41:06 AM »
I smoke when I have the desire.
When the drugs wear off and you need your next fix.

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #38 on: May 29, 2009, 11:01:07 AM »
i stopped smoking as of 8:00am. today. so far so good. no cravings to speak of. i was going to wait till tuesday but i was down to 3 or 4 cigs. a day and i am going to have a 3 day weekend anyway so why wait. i will let ya'll know how this turns out. ;D p.s. i really thank everyone for your support.

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #39 on: May 30, 2009, 05:27:00 AM »
Chilachuck
Of course that is correct, do you think I am so stupid as to deny it is an addiction.
What about that statement deserves nothing but a where is the information you wanted to convey. Say something that is noteworthy. You don't have an addiction, i'm proud for you but I doubt it
I avoid smoking when I do certain things or after certain things Just out of habit.
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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #40 on: May 31, 2009, 04:46:38 AM »
I used to be addicted to tobacco. Like I said, quitting nearly killed me.

Lot's of people say "I'm not addicted, I can quit any time I want", meaning it's something they decide to do.

Well, they don't want, their bodies want the chemical. You know it's not your brain controlling this, fine. Lot's don't, they say it's something they decide to do.

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #41 on: May 31, 2009, 05:21:08 AM »
I think we can all agree smoking is an addiction.  I still smoke sometimes,  some days I don't other days a few, I managed to cut way back and only roll my own and not buy packs, but it's still an addiction as the days I decide I'm not smoking it takes effort not to have one.  I don't drink much, a few shots on Friday or Saturday,  unless I'm with my father in law and get carried away like last night.  He talked me into chasing down a few shots with beer.  I actually am proud of myself for not smoking last night while drinking as this was pretty tough!  It's an addiction for sure. 
But the times that I do smoke is my business and as long as I don't do it in public places or other people's property (don't smoke in my own house either) it shouldn't cause a big problem with other people.  Maybe someday I'll stop altogether, might be easier for me than someone who smokes more, but right now I don't care to thow away the little bag of tobacco and my rolling papers.  I do admit it's an addiction though. 

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #42 on: May 31, 2009, 05:30:18 PM »
good news folks it has been 3 days so far and i had not lite one up! no cravings and i even went around someone smoking and i did not want one.so far so good!!! now the bad news,my girl friend is falling apart in her effort. i went from being the best to the worst person she has ever met in just three days. >:(

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Re: a very rough day!!!!
« Reply #43 on: June 01, 2009, 03:00:15 AM »
Let her live as she wishes and she will find you again, too be supportive of here wishes.
I have friend who have split households, one smokes the others don't. The Hen doesn't smoke---well if you saw her you would say she smokes, for a 65 year old she looks good.
Live and let live.
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