My old high school buddy that I stay with in Florida has a younger brother. I'll call him Darrell for this thread. Darrell was constantly belittled and yelled at by their father. Then the older sister could do no wrong in the Fathers eyes. The Father was an alcoholic and had a short temper. Anyway Darrell grew up with a bad attitude toward girls. Darrell moved away to Washington state. There he kidnapped his bosses wife. Darrell raped her repeatedly and held her hostage for several days in a remote location. For that he spent time in prison. The woman refused to press charges, and showed up in court in his defense. The state still prosacuted him for kidnapping and rape, and he was sent to prison for 10 years. When released Darrell went to Florida to be closer to family.
Upon arrival my buddy who had inherited the family business, felt guilty since the parents had left nothing to Darrell. My buddy went out and rented an apartment for his younger brother. Here he had trouble finding one a registered sex offender could stay in, but was finally successful. Every week he gave his younger brother a small cash payment to help with groceries and utilities. Darrell met a woman and finally got married. My buddy was not too impressed with his new sister-in-law, felt she was only looking for a place to stay.
The woman was doing crack, but keeping it quite from Darrell. Darrell came home one day and found her strung out. They got into a fight, and the police were called. Darrell being the male got a ride to the police station, where they found out he was a parolee. Darrell got to spend 30 days in jail for disturbing the peace, and domestic abuse, since he had slapped his wife around.
When Darrell went to jail my buddy quite paying his rent, which in south Florida is pretty high. The crackhead wife was forced to move out, and no one has seen her since. Darrell upon release was unable to find a place to live since a new law had been passed to exclude sex offenders from most neighborhoods where there is schools, churches, or parks, any thing that might be a gathering place for children. Now Darrell had never molested a child, and is definitely not a child molester, but he is a registered sex offender, and the new law applied to him as such. Darrell can not find a place to live in Ft Lauderdale, therefore he sleeps in an old junk car in back of a church. (That is ironic isn't it) During the day he hits the streets looking for a handout, and just hanging out with others in the same predicament. My buddy still gives him a weekly cash supplement, and is always giving him clothes, and shoes, to wear. My buddy gives Darrell just enough cash for one meal a day, he says anything more and he will spend it on booze.
Darrell is not interested in finding a job, or maybe moving out of the area. Darrell is homeless, he is a very intelligent and informed person when it comes to national and international affairs. When I go down there he and I will sit and talk for hours about world affairs. I often take him out to dinner when I am down there, but I have to be careful where I take him. Darrell has the foulest mouth you have ever heard and it impossible to keep his mouth shut around families and women. Darrell talks like he is still in prison, or out on the street. Darrell just is not interested in helping himself out of his situation.
One other thing, my buddies wife, sister, and all the women in the family are so afraid of Darrell they will not come around the shop if they think he is going to be there. They are all armed and carry, because of him. They have said if he ever shows up at their home, they will shoot him on sight.
If Darrell lived in Anchorage, come winter he would find a warm place to live. He is intelligent and capable of helping himself, but has no incentive, living in warm southern Florida.
Unlike the lower 48, Alaska has not been hit quite as hard by the recession. The homeless could find work if they really try. There is jobs here, in fact the gold mines, and oil companies, are hiring workers from out of state. A large number of workers working for the Pogo Gold Mine near Delta Alaska, live out of state and commute to work from places like Wisconsin, Michigan, and Oklahoma. The men and women work six to eight weeks on and two to three weeks off. They go home during the two or three week off period. When working the mine furnishes them room and board. My almost son, (actually my neighbors son, who has spend as much time here as at home since he was 10 hanging out with Sky) works at the Pogo mine, and loves it. He tells me about the workers from out of state, and how they commute. I also meet the commuting workers at the airport, and on planes going and coming from the lower 48.