Author Topic: Boy my wife and I are fighting right now!!!!!!!!!! (Read 2180 times)

slim rem 7 · « **Reply #30 on:** August 05, 2009, 02:19:19 PM »

you know what this free advice is possibly worth dale ...think about it. but....
if theres kids to be trained an she knew you liked guns to start with...
just let her know you intend to educate them....
in any case ,it sounds like mabe this just lit a fuse for something that has been there a while...
take her on a date an let guns be the last thing thats on you mind...
making up is better than any hunting i ever did..jmo :)slim
don t compromise your view on the 2nd ammendment... that subject would probably be best avoided altogather...a GOOD WOMAN GIVES A MAN PEACE OF MIND ,,LIKE NOTHIN ELSE CAN.
again just my opinion

Skunk · « **Reply #31 on:** August 05, 2009, 03:53:58 PM »

I'm sorry. I just couldn't resist.

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And then after the big D:

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Dee · « **Reply #32 on:** August 05, 2009, 04:27:31 PM »

Hell Dale, all this advice is just a lot of trouble. Divorce her and you both will probably be better off.

burntmuch · « **Reply #33 on:** August 05, 2009, 04:34:04 PM »

Sell all your guns & take up scrap booking

DalesCarpentry · « **Reply #34 on:** August 05, 2009, 04:39:38 PM »

Quote from: Dee on August 05, 2009, 04:27:31 PM

Hell Dale, all this advice is just a lot of trouble. Divorce her and you both will probably be better off.

I have to say I get really pissed off at her at times but we are used to each other now. We will be together 17 years in November.

She still drives me crazy at times though. I do the same to her so it is give and take.

Dale

DalesCarpentry · « **Reply #35 on:** August 05, 2009, 04:43:23 PM »

I am going to bed now. I have to get up at 5:30 am for work. I will check back on this thread tommorow evening. Good night Dale

Skunk · « **Reply #36 on:** August 05, 2009, 04:46:31 PM »

Make sure you give the little Mrs. a nice kiss and tell her you love her before you turn in.

highwayman · « **Reply #37 on:** August 05, 2009, 05:30:52 PM »

my girlfriend and i argue about everything. totally different views. p.s. ironglow funny you should mention schwabish gmund i was station there from 87-89.

BBF · « **Reply #38 on:** August 06, 2009, 07:15:24 AM »

NGH
You got a good translation for the March beer complete with the proper"Umlaut" spelling.

"Das Helle" would tranlate as "The Light One" meaning the color not the calories

SHOOTALL · « **Reply #39 on:** August 06, 2009, 07:21:37 AM »

You took each other for better or worst , get used to it !

Skunk · « **Reply #40 on:** August 06, 2009, 07:32:54 AM »

Quote from: BBF on August 06, 2009, 07:15:24 AM

NGH
You got a good translation for the March beer complete with the proper "Umlaut" spelling.

"Das Helle" would tranlate as "The Light One" meaning the color not the calories

There ya go.

Questor · « **Reply #41 on:** August 06, 2009, 10:35:34 AM »

The great thing about fighting with my wife is that, after the rare occasions on which we do it, our bond gets a bit stronger.

My wife and I are quite different in sensibilities, but that's what I wanted in a wife. We complement each other. This causes friction at times, but overall it makes our union better because I inherit the benefit of her strengths, and she inherits the benefit of mine. This seems to be the natural explanation for why men and women are different.

If I wanted a woman that thinks like I do, then I'd have been better off single.

I figure that the core values are the most important thing. And politics isn't a core value, so differences there ought to be ignored or at least quietly tolerated.

ironglow · « **Reply #42 on:** August 06, 2009, 12:31:18 PM »

There is an old saying.."opposites attract". While this may be true, I like to say "opposites attract, but similars stay together". While this is only a generality, I believe that if a man & woman were brought up with approximately the same values, training, discipline, religion, politics and dwelling preference (city vs country)... their chances of making it work are greatly enhanced.
True, there are success stories without these qualifying factors, but chances are much improved with them in play (IMO). The wife and I will be celebrating 53 years in a few days and our young lives were so similar there were very few if any, "differences" to settle.

slim rem 7 · « **Reply #43 on:** August 06, 2009, 01:16:30 PM »

its most important that you are focused on similar goals ,,i think..
my first wife was a sweet country girl of 18,,i was a little rough around the edges my self..

okay i was dumb as dirt..
30 yrs later she had become somewhat of a keep up with the jones person ...i was a man who thought the keep up with the jones crowd were just not anything but funny sometimes..so without effort an prayer
any marriage can come apart if you just both going in different directions...she ask for a few weeks separation one night due to my not being willing to sign on for another lrg 30 yr.mortgage payment,at 57 yrs old..... i had been trying to get us to counseling,,but she said things would get said ,,that couldn t be taken back ..but id never have ask her to separate.... so she left and i ask the kids to hang close to her,,
as she was talking scary stuff..meantime i went thru hell for mabe 8 months or more..
i ll always love her even tho ive remarried... she will always be the sweetest mother an lover a man could hope for...but my vows are to another great lady now,,an this is one of the few times ,ive allowed my self
to remember,,or let it be on my mind...my vows with my wife now don t allow me to think about this any longer... good luck dale... slim
PS as you all know theres two sides to every story,,especially the ones of this nature... i don t kid myself about that..

BBF · « **Reply #44 on:** August 07, 2009, 05:28:45 AM »

I don't think I could live with a left-winger in my house and certainly not share a bed. Gaaaaah !!!

45-70.gov · « **Reply #45 on:** August 07, 2009, 06:04:22 AM »

DALE
just remind her how strict the laws are reguarding cocain
and how easy it was for her to smoke crack every night

guns laws are useless as are those that vote for democrats

you wife is a waste of time.......you cannot reason with liberals
save you daughter and take her to the range
if you didnt smoke you could buy her a box of shells every weekend

myronman3 · « **Reply #46 on:** August 07, 2009, 06:25:03 AM »

and while all this is transpiring, i am out chasing skirts and living it up. what has this to do with the topic....well i will tell ya.....

you would be SHOCKED at how many women get super excited to go shooting. i have introduced alot of women (potentially anti-gunners) to shooting and shooting sports. they LOVE it. the way i see it, everyone i take out shooting, teach them about guns, educate them about safety, and let them see how much fun it can be, is one less person for the anti's to brainwash. there is nothing like hands on experience to combat propoganda.
got another one lined up for sunday afternoon.

DalesCarpentry · « **Reply #47 on:** August 07, 2009, 12:52:02 PM »

Quote from: 45-70.gov on August 07, 2009, 06:04:22 AM

DALE
just remind her how strict the laws are reguarding cocain
and how easy it was for her to smoke crack every night

guns laws are useless as are those that vote for democrats

you wife is a waste of time.......you cannot reason with liberals
save you daughter and take her to the range
if you didnt smoke you could buy her a box of shells every weekend

My wife does not and never has smoked crack. Dale

45-70.gov · « **Reply #48 on:** August 07, 2009, 05:23:20 PM »

i didnt say she did

just tell her that lol

DalesCarpentry · « **Reply #49 on:** August 07, 2009, 06:01:49 PM »

Quote from: 45-70.gov on August 07, 2009, 05:23:20 PM

i didnt say she did

just tell her that lol

What ever. Dale

bubba · « **Reply #50 on:** August 08, 2009, 02:11:28 AM »

typical Dale thread. Boo hoo poor me I need a tissue. Then when he hears the reality he attacks those who tell it to him. As I have said many times man up. It is called an analogy. You know like a comparison. In school they tell kids about the danger of driving erratically and causing fatalities on the road. Do they have to have been in a fatal accident to understand it? Geesh

SHOOTALL · « **Reply #51 on:** August 08, 2009, 02:31:17 AM »

Ya married the woman , you took her for better or worst , you got what you paid for . you vowed to be with her and to take care of her . Short of her cheating on you you are her mate . Life sucks stump water then you die !

HAVE A NICE DAY !

DDZ · « **Reply #52 on:** August 08, 2009, 03:07:57 AM »

No matter who you marry you will see this person's faults much easier then you will see the good. Its just human nature. Part of keeping a good marriage is to overlook the faults and focus on the good that your partner brings too the marriage.

The best marriage's happen when both are forgivers. Holding on to petty annoyances, old hurts and dissapointments, wastes your time and energy. Holding on to a perceived hurt can spawn hate and bitterness. Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your spouse. God will not forgive you unless you forgive others first.

My youngest son is getting married today, and I pray that God will bless his marriage, and God the best maker of all marriage's will combine thier hearts into one. Also I pray that this commitment will last a lifetime. For this is what God wants and expects.

S.S. · « **Reply #53 on:** August 08, 2009, 03:54:41 AM »

Do you Love her?
If No. then divorce her.
If YES. Then I would suggest You go appologize...
Don't ever use your kids as weapons! It doesn't
get much lower than that!

burntmuch · « **Reply #54 on:** August 08, 2009, 04:01:56 AM »

OR just ignore some of the stupid things she says. Im sure she ignores some of the stupid things You say. I would put a self imposed post delay . When you want to post something , Think about it for 4-5 hrs before you post it. May save you some heartache

DalesCarpentry · « **Reply #55 on:** August 08, 2009, 04:11:04 AM »

Yes I love her and we were both over it the next day. I was just upset when I started this thread. I am sure we will be together until one of us dies. Dale

Drilling Man · « **Reply #56 on:** August 08, 2009, 04:20:44 AM »

Quote from: S.S. on August 08, 2009, 03:54:41 AM

Don't ever use your kids as weapons! It doesn't
get much lower than that!

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BBF · « **Reply #57 on:** August 08, 2009, 04:27:19 AM »

Ditto that Drilling Man. My ex was an expert on that subject.

Cheesehead · « **Reply #58 on:** August 08, 2009, 05:17:57 AM »

Quote from: DDZ on August 08, 2009, 03:07:57 AM

No matter who you marry you will see this person's faults much easier then you will see the good. Its just human nature. Part of keeping a good marriage is to overlook the faults and focus on the good that your partner brings too the marriage.

The best marriage's happen when both are forgivers. Holding on to petty annoyances, old hurts and dissapointments, wastes your time and energy. Holding on to a perceived hurt can spawn hate and bitterness. Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your spouse. God will not forgive you unless you forgive others first.

My youngest son is getting married today, and I pray that God will bless his marriage, and God the best maker of all marriage's will combine thier hearts into one. Also I pray that this commitment will last a lifetime. For this is what God wants and expects.

So much truth and wisdom in this post. It is one of the best posts I have ever read.

Cheese

45-70.gov · « **Reply #59 on:** August 08, 2009, 04:17:17 PM »

it is good you still turn to us when your down

and there is know one like this group

even tho we still kick you when your down