I won't disagree the above thing happened, but it had to have happened with the brand of dies that use the collet type of nut and 1/4" plain stock decapping pin. Wouldn't happen with the dies using the threaded decapping stem.
Have I decapped live primers? Yes. Would I do it as a standard practice? NO.
A person with live primers in brass has about 4 options (I am sure someone will come up with 5, 6, or more)
a.) Place the brass in a firearm and fire off the brass (wasted primer)
b.) Spray inside or soak primed cases with water or penetrating oil to disable the prime compound. (wasted primer)
c.) Load primed cases and deprime after firing.
d.) Carefully deprime as stated above and take a chance of being a statistic. (Could make a good story for us to read in a few days.)
No matter how much we argue amoungst ourselves, HuntHard has to make the decision on how to handle his situation. Each of us that have reloaded very long has made this decision at one time or another.
I think we can all agree on a couple of points: Safety glasses. One primer at a time. No open powder containers or measures near when priming. (Unless using one of my progressive presses, I prime in a different room.) Be careful.
Choose wisely, and take care.
Steve