Card wads can be briefly soaked in a saturated solution of Baking soda in water and allowed to dry.
The baking soda is a fire retardant and will reduce the chance of light your wife's garden on fire, not that I would admit to having any first hand knowledge of such an event, nor does the only witness who may have been 5 years old at the time and who may have been paid off in new Lego toys so as to not remember anything.
Don't be temped to use damp paper, as it can pack very tightly and become a bore obstruction.
The smaller (1 inch and under) bores do seem to want a bit of resistance in front of the charge to speak loudly. However, only a quality, overbuilt piece can be used safely with any significant amount of wadding. Who made your barrel? It is hard to give recommended load info without first hand experience with the same particular barrel. Some are really overbuilt and indestructible. Others are downright dangerous with even loads that many would consider moderate.
If you don't feel motivated to punch out your own wads,
http://www.ballisticproducts.com/ is a good source of shotgun sized wads. Dixie gun works would be another source.
Rick