I would be using the loads in a lever action, a single shot, and a revolver so...
Also, I can't find a proper COL so, I would normally seat the bullets to the crimping groove, safe way to go?
Last question! I know that looking for pressure signs isn't a full proof way to go about max pressure, but I usually call it stops when the primers start to flatten out a bit (on revolvers most of all). They aren't cratered or ruptured but surely some what flatter than known lower pressure rounds. That a bad idea?
Seating to the crimping groove would be fine.
The signs of pressure are multiple (not just primer flattening) and differ among various types of guns. You should not exceed the maximum loads listed in your manual and, in fact, most of the time my best load ends up being a grain or two below the maximum listed load.
Signs of low pressure include:
1. Primer backed out above the head of the case.
2. A lot of residue in the barrel.
3. Soot on the case.
Signs of high pressure include:
1. Primer flattened clear out to the edge. It's normal for the center to be flattened somewhat.
2. Primer cratering (too large a firing pin hole can do this as well).
3. Pierced or leaking primers.
4. Poor brass life (from loose primer pockets or head separations). This can also be caused by poor brass.
5. Sticky bolt lift, sticky extraction or sticky ejection.
6. As a load is increased, groups will usually tighten a bit. When they start to widen again it means that pressure is increasing a bit too much and that nothing beneficial will be gained by increasing the load further.