Hey Tony-
Wish we were neighbors, I love the 41Mag! You may want to check the threads for the pics of the cow elk that was taken with a 41Mag Ruger Blackhawk Bisley this Fall. It was a great write-up.
Frank Petrini labeled the 41 as The Dependable Magnum in a magazine article he penned about 30 years ago. I bought my first Blackhawk 41Mag in 1980. It has been dependable for me. Take your time, and give it time. The 41Mag is worthy of that. It's the caliber you have chosen, so take the steps to make it work for you. Lots of good stuff on this thread, except stuff that says it isn't enough for deer (see elk story above). Some of that depends on who is behind the trigger. Most of the "good press" comes from guys who have had decades of experience with the 41Mag and didn't quit on it because of some particular circumstance. Face it. Twenty thousandths of diameter and 100fps of velocity is not going to change putting venison in the freezer. Bullet selection and shot placement will. I believe you have witnessed one or both of those events. I like it and it does what I want it to do. Guys have told you to go out and shoot stuff, "after" you practice, practice, practice. And YES, we encourage you to take up reloading so that you can practice, practice, practice. Taking up IHMSA or NRA match shooting can help your "hunting shots" if you don't get caught up in the competition and use match guns instead of your hunting gun. When I started shooting IHMSA, I used my same Blackhawk 41Mag that I hunted with. I shot standing through production, revolver, and unlimited courses with the same revolver. I started in "A" class and after 3 years moved up into "AA" class. Never got any better than that, but my hunting shots got a LOT better! AND I like standing on my feet and shooting my revolver. The animal silhouete targets can help your shot placement if you concentrate on shot placement in the kill zone and not just aim at center of mass. Becoming a good revolver shot takes a lot of practice. Staying a good revolver shot takes a lot of practice!
I still love my Blackhawk 41Mag, but I can't shoot it like I used to as I don't take the time or have the place to engage in that kind of practice. I for sure don't take shots today that would have been 'just another shot' a few years ago. As 'Dirty Harry' said, 'a man needs to know his limitations'. I agree, but would add, 'and stay within them'. You've got some foundation to work from, and with what has been already posted here, you've got a wealth of experience to draw from.
The bottom line basically is it's up to you to make it happen, regardless of what you choose to use or how you choose to use it. If you want a 44Mag, 454Casull, or 44 Special, just go get it. They are all very capable of putting venison in the freezer. All it really takes is determination and practice, practice, practice! You will be the winner!
Regards,
Sweetwater