I'm new at this too but kinda ran into the same trouble with my handi using a nosler balistictip, really long measurements.
Then I figured out the bullet was sticking in the rifleing. Try bending the tip of the cartridge neck on a flat surface a little bit so it has a better grab on the bullet. I used a dremel and cut a slit on a once fired case so I can squeeze it together then slip a bullet init.
Others will add to this, and I hope correct me here if I'm wrong, but if we mess with overall and sammi spec looking for a seating depth, each box of bullet you use has to be tested individually to find dead seat (or what ever it's called when bullet contacts the lands) then back up from there,,as a newbie I'm going to stay away from the lands.
It's tough to understand the books,,Hornady and Sierra list a different coal for each of their bullet styles with-in a given weight, Nosler only lists sammi OAL for all their bullets, then Barnes sayz 30-70 off the lands,,common! Another $70 tool?