My cousin lives in Tennessee, up in the hill country 70 miles east of Nashville. She never worked, stayed at home and took care of the kids. She was always running my wife down, because she was active duty Air Force. She also had a problem with all of my brothers wives because they worked as well.
She married a well to do Electrician, to hear her tell it. Her father gave her the House she had grown up in, and the farm as a wedding gift. Her husband was always employed (sub contracting) wiring new houses being built. He had more work than he could handle, making lots of money. They were always buying Fancy Horses, and Show Saddles, Horse Trailers, Big Trucks to tow the trailers, and going all over the Southern States, showing their Horses.
He bragged about how he got around paying taxes all those years. The farm was a money losing proposition. His expenditures for feed, equipment, fertilizer, and other misc expenses, was enough to offset his income from the small Tobacco crop he made every year, and the small income he had to claim as an Electrician.
I asked him one day about health care, he laughed, saying he did not need it. He thought it was dumb of me to be worrying about such nonsense.
Then he had a Heart attack about 6 years ago. He can no longer work. No health care, and no savings. They spent everything he made just as fast as he made it. Now all they do is complain about how poor they are, and how they cannot afford to pay all the hospital bills. About how they had to sell off the horses, the trailer, the truck, and 1/3 of the farm to pay the hospital bill after his heart attack. Now they are just barely surviving.
My mother says it's wrong of me to feel the way I do, but I do not feel sorry for them one bit. They are the ones that refused to look out for their future. They laughed and made fun of me and my brother when we tried to explain it to them.
Now my cousin has the idea that the new Health Care Bill is the answer to all her problems. Now that it has passed they are elated. I think they are in for a big surprise. Bet the rest of the farm is sold within the next five years.