For 357 get a 180 gr FN, or 41 a 220 gr WFN or up to 250 gr, and for 44 a 280 or down to 260 WFN. Drive the 44 at 1200 fps, the 41 at a bit higher speed and the 357 push to the wall, which will be 1400 fps plus, and all will kill most deer in their tracks or within a few feet of where they are hit, with decent chest hits.