mirage1988, that is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. These games are just that, games. If we were talking war or politics, then by all means, step on their throat. I've been beaten badly before, won a few games lopsided, but there ALWAYS came a time, save one game, when the contest was decided and we athletes just played remainder of the game for the game's sake alone. We'd do our best, but pull the knockout punch.
At the end, we'd shake hands and go have pizza. That is how it has been for my son. I see them literally trying to kill each other when the game is contested, and he plays with GOOD athletes, but when it's decided, the kids all know each other, have been playing together for years, and laugh, smile, help each other up, and pat each other's back. The parents all talk and have fun, the coaches are great mentors on and off of the field, and we are able to build fine young men. I'm proud of my kids, and their friends. I aspire to be as good of sports as they usually are.
It is pretty cool, really.