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Offline slim rem 7

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karry..
« on: February 25, 2010, 03:02:34 AM »
im  having to do what i never intended to do..shes gonna die if she stays with me,,as she hasn t eaten in 3 days ..she s not bed ridden,.. she just won t eat or take meds or nothing..she may pass on before i can ever get her placed..you reading words of a man that has done the hardest thing ive ever done ..
 now i ll have to find it in myself to do something even harder.. sleep im our bed ,,while shes in some care center..for you thats had to do it ..you have my total sympathy and admiration..but this to will pass.
i know it will. thank yall for your prayers .. i wouldn t take nothing for these last few months,ive had with her .. slim
ps.. not that i ever made much sense ..but i may not be making much sense for a while.this a heavy load.
 ps this the only time in my life,, i ever hafd need or wished i had a couple million ..so i could do this the way i want to..
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Re: karry..
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2010, 03:13:49 AM »
You do what you have to do and it is not your fault. Give up the burden of fault or failure.
My paryers are offered in your behalf and hers.
Blessings
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Re: karry..
« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2010, 03:23:43 AM »
Slim it is not a decision I've faced and likely most of us here haven't yet. But it is something that I think a large percentage of couples face at some point in their lives. I think more often than not it is the wife rather than husband who face these decisions.

It's never easy and is truly the best for the loved one who needs more care than can be given at home. The pain is that felt by the one left at home after the loved one has to go to a care facility. Just know that what you do is really best for her and that you are tough and with GOD's help can bear up under the load.

Our prayers are with you in this hard time. It is a fate a great many on here will share at some point in their lives. If she passes know that she has gone to a better place and that her days of suffering are past and that one day you too will rejoin her there and then all surffering will end and the good times will be all there is from then on.
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Re: karry..
« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2010, 03:41:32 AM »
Sorry Slim.  :'(
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Re: karry..
« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2010, 03:46:23 AM »
SLIM. More prayers sent friend. Got back from ILL yesterday. Mom is getting forgetful too. She left a pie in the oven til the crust burned and a tea kettle on the stove that she forgot while we were there. She wanted coffe and was using the kettle. I told her to just put a cup of water in the microwave, but she won't. God loves you friend. Charlie.  :( :(
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Re: karry..
« Reply #5 on: February 25, 2010, 03:53:49 AM »
Slim,

Thoughts, hopes and prayers heading out for you and Karry.  She's lucky to have someone who loves her like you.

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« Reply #6 on: February 25, 2010, 03:55:12 AM »
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Re: karry..
« Reply #7 on: February 25, 2010, 03:56:58 AM »
Quote from: FreeNHim on February 25, 2010, 03:53:49 AM
Slim,

Thoughts, hopes and prayers heading out for you and Karry.  She's lucky to have someone who loves her like you.

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Re: karry..
« Reply #8 on: February 25, 2010, 04:06:45 AM »
What words of comfort can one offer in times like these except trust in GOD to guide you and rejoice in the thought that one day we will all be in a better place with the ones we love.
Prayers to you & yours.



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Re: karry..
« Reply #9 on: February 25, 2010, 05:20:34 AM »
Slim I'll keep you in my prayers .
We had to make this decision for my mother recently.
I can't tell you what to do. But I think you'll know when it's time.
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Re: karry..
« Reply #10 on: February 25, 2010, 05:29:52 AM »
My Prayers go out for you Slim. Lean on God, my friend. Talk to Him for direction.
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Re: karry..
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2010, 01:15:43 PM »
 its time now .. thanks everyone..theres not but one set of tracks in the sand now.. ive realised that for a while..its just part of life an god willing i ll get through it whether id rather or not..he makes those choices ..not me..thanks again brothers. slim
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Re: karry..
« Reply #12 on: February 25, 2010, 01:22:44 PM »
Prayers sent brother Slim. God will pull you through.
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Re: karry..
« Reply #13 on: February 25, 2010, 01:39:49 PM »
Yes, Slim, a prayer sent for you and Karry. all else has been said far better than I could at this juncture.

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Re: karry..
« Reply #14 on: February 26, 2010, 06:05:09 AM »
now on a different subject.. brothers i been spending a while at the social security office..
 i need to get karry approved for disability ..before i can get her placed in a care facility..
  conclusion from the people i see there..this whole system is failing faster than ,i think anyone suspects..
 you better be ready to survive with the whole govt system coming dn around us..
 it reminded me of a blood full tick struggling to get around..that ticks gonna die when its babies are born..
 don t mean to sound that negative ..but i can t see how the system in place now can drag its self around much longer..
 half the people had these picture cell phones ..i know they not cheap.. but they willing to put out for that an can t do without that cell phone..i got rid of mine when karry first got sick..cut the power bill by half .. don t waste gas ,don t throw away the heal of a loaf of bread..most of the people in there would not even begin,, to know how to survive like that ,,without rioting .. .. you know who im talking about..i don t even know why i was surprised at what these young people on the doal think is necessary..nuff said,,jmo slim
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