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Offline KABAR2

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Re: Quit!
« Reply #30 on: December 10, 2010, 08:47:56 AM »
Quit? .... never started.

May the Lord give her peace in her final days and strength and comfort for your family.

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« Reply #31 on: December 10, 2010, 11:03:38 AM »
Douglas,  I'm really sorry to hear that you MinL has taken such a turn for the worse.
We all know it has to come one day but it doesn’t help.  My FinL died of cancer coming up a year ago.
We are all thinking of you.

Tony

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« Reply #32 on: December 10, 2010, 11:27:05 AM »
Will remember yous also.

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« Reply #33 on: December 10, 2010, 11:49:38 AM »
I went though this very thing 5 years ago with my mother in law. She was found to have colin cancer. She for some time complined about lower pain. I pushed on her for months to GO SEE A DOCTOR. Then one day she had blood in stool. I having Chrones told her that she was going to see a doctor NO matter WHAT. My wifes and my life were changed for the next 18 1/2 months. I took her to all her apts, runs in for radition, Kemo ect EVERY day. It is just what you do for family. I love my mother in law Irma Gibson. There will not be another one like her. After 18 1/2 months she lost the fight. Then the family BULL crap started. Funny how money brings out the nasty things in people. In a nut shell Vicky and I had to hire two lawyers and threaten to sue the estate. That is what it took to get the gready SOBS off our back. In the end my wife dose not no longer talks to her younger sister we no longer talk to Vicky's 2 half brothers. In the end they screwed my wife out of $23K. Vicky had told her mom that there would be NO FIGHTING over ANYTHING. So we let them have there way. They have to live with what they did, not us. We were there for Irma 24/7 18 months. They were hardly there at all. It was dunmped on Vicky and I, but ok to me we had friends that came and helped us out when we needed it.

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« Reply #34 on: December 10, 2010, 03:07:15 PM »
I wish I had some magic words to make things easier.
Hang in there, you are not alone.

K.

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« Reply #35 on: December 10, 2010, 04:54:22 PM »
Douglas, our thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Frank

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« Reply #36 on: December 10, 2010, 05:44:30 PM »
Thank you every one for your prayers an well wishes,  She went to Gods hand about  8 o'clock this evening. 

She knew for some time that this disease would take her life.  Right after diagnoses she met with an attorney and had her trust rewritten and up dated.    She contacted the local funeral home and had her funeral plan updated  and final arrangements made. 

She died with dignity and grace....she was a great mother in law and I will miss her greatly.


Now quit smoking you do not want to die like she did.

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« Reply #37 on: December 10, 2010, 06:38:40 PM »
I offer this prayer for her:

O God of spirits and of all flesh, Who hast trampled down death,
and overthrown the devil, and given life to Thy world: Do Thou,
Thyself, or Lord give rest to the soul of Thy departed
servant, in a place of light, a place of green pasture, a
place of repose, whence all sickness, sorrow and sighing are fled
away. Pardon every sin committed by her, in word,
deed or thought, in that Thou art a good God, the Lover of
mankind; For there is no man that liveth and sinneth not, for
Thou alone art without sin, Thy righteousness is an everlasting
righteousness, and Thy Word in Truth.

For Thou art the Resurrection, and the Life, and the repose
of Thy departed servant, O Christ our God,
and to Thee we send up glory, together with Thine
unoriginate Father, and Thy most holy and good and life-
creating Spirit, now and ever, and to the ages of ages.

Amen.


Your ob't & etc,
Joseph Lovell

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« Reply #38 on: December 11, 2010, 03:56:21 AM »
Thank you Joe, from my wife and I.

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« Reply #39 on: December 11, 2010, 05:54:23 AM »
My heart goes out to you and the Mr. Too similar to my own Mother 13 years ago. Your Mother-in-Law has been blessed by you and her daughter. She will soon be pain free.

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« Reply #40 on: December 11, 2010, 06:18:02 AM »
Douglas,
I'm sorry for the loss that you and your wife are now grieving.
RIP John. While on vacation July 4th 2013 in northern Wisconsin, he was ATVing with family and pulled ahead of everyone and took off at break-neck speed without a helmet. He lost control.....hit a tree....and the tree won.  He died instantly.

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« Reply #41 on: December 12, 2010, 10:14:57 AM »
Doug, I am so sorry for your loss. Good mother in laws only come 1 time. I feel for you and your wife. Time dose heal.