This is very difficult [recommend for a stranger].
I need to learn a lot more about you, and preferably to be around you in classes, hunts, etc., etc.
Please check my other posts [SIG, Ruger, etc]; they would be helpful to you.
However, here goes:
If you can get past the price tag, the SIG P226 and P229 are excellent.
The 9mm is fine, but my first choice would be the 40 cal and a 357SIG barrel.
Also, get the SIG 22 rimfire conversion unit.
Because your last semi was a 1911, I would recommend a Springfield XDM in either 9mm, or 40 cal.
If you truly understand all of the fire control systems, and their intrinsic advantages and disadvantages; and decide that a Glock fits your needs, they are fine very durable weapons; very accurate and reliable in 9mm.
In Glocks, I like: G34, G17, or G19. [I cannot recommend any other Glock].
Ammo prices are stabilizing and 40cal is easier to get and not too much more expensive than 9mm; ...
45acp prices are going up ... again.
Also, in the XDM [and SIGs], 40cal accuracy is becoming respectable.
For a variety of reasons, I just can no longer recommend 45acp for most folks.
You already have ...
the heavy artillery: 44 mag Redhawk;
and the "trainers / plinkers": a S&W 617, and a Ruger 22/45;
so I am leaning toward a self defense pistol.
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Si vis pacem, para bellum ...
“If you wish for peace, prepare for war.”
Semper Preparatus:
Training + Practice =======>>> Safety ... for all.
Thanks,
Chuck