The 243 AI would be a good option. Do not worry about the bolt head. I have a Remington 722 daddy to the short action 700. I reform 308 and 7.62x51 brass into 300 Savage all the time without a problem with the bolt head.
My badly addicted Wildcatter brother has barrels change over more often than some folks change their shorts.
If you want the best accuracy than buying the barrel from Shilen and having the barrel fitted is the best deal, pricey yes but fair for what you get. If you are looking for long range accuracy the Shilen way maybe better than the slam-bang way.
http://www.shilen.com/pricesServices.htmlThe price of a good set of Redding Dies is not that rough.
http://www.midwayusa.com/viewProduct/?productNumber=172408The 243 AI is a good way of increasing case capacity and with the 308 mother case you will always find cases to work with.
The addicted has played with a number of 6mm rifles starting out with the 243 Winchester, but his latest has been a 6mm-284 Winchester which will fit a Remington short action. He claims he is getting small groups with it.
It would be interesting to know what the trade off in barrel life is with the 243AI and the 6mm-284?