I had a Glock 20 years ago, liked it a lot. Just ordered another one. The grips are big, as big as any auto I can think of, like a Desert Eagle except not as heavy, but I still like it. That size distributes the recoil well.
For most factory ammo, the stock barrel is fine, but if you want to shoot lead or push the limits with handloads, you need a quality aftermarket barrel.
For my old one, I had a .40s&w conversion barrel, that was great, lower cost practice and reduced recoil. Even though I handload now, I'll still get another .40 barrel for versatility, a second caliber, the .40 uses small primers, and an aftermarket barrel can use lead bullets.