It sounds like you are using Triple 7...If so, switch to Pyrodex or better yet, real black powder...Triple 7 can blow patches because it is hotter than real black powder or Pyrodex...
If I am reading you post correctly, the patches being blown are precut and prelubed...I've had this happen as well because you don't know how long those patches have been lubed and the oil breaks down the cotton and the patches blow away...
I prefer to buy bulk patching as you have done with the tickng...I'd try to find another patch material...If you have a Jo Annes fabric store nearby you might try #40 cotton drill cloth...
It sounds like the .018 ticking is what the gun prefers...Some rifles just prefer a tight patch/ball combo and shoot best when wiped between shots...I've never known a competitive shooted that didn't use a tight combo and didn't clean between shots...
Off the top of my head this is why patches blow...
1) Too thin, don't hold up and can't hold enough lube...
2) Not cotton or linen, man made fibers burn quickly...
3) Rough barrel, needs lapping...
4) Poor crown or sharp lands...Actually cutting the patch, barrel needs lapping...
5) Excessive powder charge or using a sub that burns too hot...
6) Loose ball patch combo allowing blow by...