I think the problem used to be the difficulty of machining a tapered carbide insert in the die. They did exist, but were well over $100 just for the sizer. Modern 9mm carbide dies have a long tapered carbide section and are affordable now.
My .357 die has a very short carbide ring, maybe 1/4", my 9mm die has a much longer carbide insert, looks to be well over a half inch, can't really see the end of it without taking the decapper stem out.
I use a Lee carbide sizer for my 9mm loads for my Glock and it works well. You have to make sure it gets as close as possible to the shell holder, but they chamber fine in my 9mm and fit in my 9mm cartridge gauge no problem. They also work well in a friend's 9mm T/C carbine with a tight chamber.