Redhawk, he should have said almost "no body will shoot well with a gun which is actually painful to fire". If you never miss, you obviously are the exception.
I have a lot of buddies that shoot heavy recoiling gun's and they shoot them very accurately. I know some guys that can't shot any handguns work a crap, even ones with light recoil. It is all in the persons ability, and dedication to practice and ability. Also ones ability to handle heavy recoiling handguns.
I see way to many guys that think that can handgun hunt just because they have a gun that is meant for handgun hunting. What they fail to realize is, they personally lack the proper training and initiative to actually shoot a handgun well enough to make a clean and well placed shot for the kill.
The 45 ACP in the hands of a very good marksman would be a deadly round for deer in the proper range of the round. Also having the correct sight to achieve consistent accuracy. Sometimes it's not the cartridge that is the problem, but the ability of the shooter.
As far as me missing with my handguns, I always make sure of my shot, and know my limitations, something else others may not do.