Exactly my point..we can find fossils of men and we can find fossils of apes..but as with most all these assumptions, honest connections cannot be made.
That statement in and of itself doesn't make sense. That's like saying "We can find collies, and we can find dogs, but no connections can be made". Man didn't just come from apes. We still are. As I said - genetically we are closer to chimps than any other two great apes species. Humans and chips share more in common than chimps and gorillas do. Our genetic makeup matches to 97%. When we look back, we see many examples of VARIOUS species of apes. Far enough back and the examples of the species of ape that we ourselves belong to goes away, but we find many other species of ape that are no longer around, but share many traits with modern man. Go further back and THEY disappear, and we find yet another species of ape that is less evolved. Not us, not the other less evolved species, but an even more primitive animal.
The fossil record isn't complete, but it paints a very clear picture of species changing over time. Lets say you have a photographer taking pictures of a car crash. You see a nice red sports car driving along in the first picture. Then a picture of it swirving. Another picture of it stating to flip. Another of it having flipped again. And then finally a picture of it lying next to a grey sedan, both with impact damage. No, you don't have a picture of them actually slamming into each other. Maybe one exists somewhere taken by another photographer, but just because luck caused you to miss that shot doesn't mean that a sane and rational mind can't look at all the pieces of evidence that you DO have an draw a likely conclusion. Not only man, but almost every single critter in the fossil record appears to be shifting forms over the eons.
Not only the connections but even the time factor. When it finally dawned upon the evolutionists that their evolutionary model simply did not have time enough during the age of this earth..they reached back to the Greek idea of "panspermia" and the later "exogenesis" to introduce their "transpermia" hypothesis. It appears that they, like Cinderella's ugly sisters were going to do their best to cram on the glass slipper, even if it were not made to fit.
What you point out as a weakness most admit as science's greatest strength. Scientists DO NOT operate on faith. They look at evidence at hand and choose the most likely explanation. That's the way science works. What makes that different than faith, is that in science, if they encounter evidence that requires changes to a theory, they CHANGE IT. They adjust things until they get them just right. Only the irrational mind clings to a believe based on no evidence and even when presented with evidence to the contrary plugs their ears yelling "LA LA LA I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!".
Timeframes for the Earth itself have been fairly well established for a while now. We've pretty well nailed it down to 4.54 billion years old at this point - within a 1% margin of error. We're not EXACTLY sure when life in general sprung up. That's currently a grey area as life it it's most basic stages leaves very little fossil records. We have evidence of VERY basic life from stromatolite fossils dating back to 2.7 billion years ago. There are some hypotheses that life could have formed earlier, but we have hard proof that simple, microbial life was around from that point forward and from that point on was off on a constant journey of change. Take a snapshot at nearly any point in time, then move that snapshot forward a few million years and the animals present in the fossil record will differ subtly from the ones immediately preceding them. Keep doing that enough times and things morph into new species that don't even resemble the originals much.
As to exogenesis, that has been forwarded as a POSSIBLE explanation for the basic origins of life. It's not required, and you'll find almost no scientists that say that that is 100% what happened, but rather it's merely one of several possibilities that could fit the facts at hand. Most scientists don't even regard this particular possibility as likely. Possible? Sure, but not the leading theory by a long shot.
The idea of panspermia (that the universe is filled with life) is merely an idea. Based on the way life appears to have arisen on Earth, it's not too far fetched of an idea to assume that it could have happened elsewhere. How is that different from a faith based initiative?
Scientists don't go on a crusade to convince the world that it's the truth handed down from above - they simply state that it's an idea with merit and propose that we go out and LOOK FOR EVIDENCE TO SUPPORT IT. If after we've observed a decent percentage of the star systems in our galaxy, if no life is found elsewhere, most scientists would be happy to revise or dismiss the idea.
I repeat; since neither has been proven by empirical scientific standards, both are an item of faith and should be viewed as such..
Proven, no, neither has been 100% officially proven. Science isn't about 100% proof though. It's about choosing the most logical explanation based on the evidence at hand. Take the car example above. Without an eye witness, it's perfectly POSSIBLE that both cars stopped undamaged and then a man in a Superman outfit jumped out, beat both cars with a bat, then ran off into the woods. Based on the evidence we have though, it's far, far more likely that the cars merely crashed into each other. In the same way, though neither has been 100% proven, the evolutionary scenario simply fits the existing data much better.