I've never used Lil'gun, but many flake powder give high pressure increases with rising temperatures, and especially if the hoad is high pressure to begin with, or at 'normal' tempertures for your area. Also, most and maybe all flake powders do wear the throat quite rapidly when used with hot loads. The ball powders burn much cooler and don't do on pressure excursions with temperature increase nearly as bad as the flake powders.
So, if you want to shoot a LOT, like 5000 rounds a year, go with #9 and wear ear muffs to protect against the muzzle blast. If you love the gentle life, and being able to grab up your pistol from the tractor tool box, holster or whatever and knock off a pest, use Universal, even if it burns the barrel out a bit faster. Your ears will remain usefull at picking up high pitch sounds a lot longer than mine have!! After a lot nicer to bury a worn out gun than wear hearing aids to keep your wife from yelling because you can't hear her and she thinks you are ignoring her!
A severly worn throat doesn't really junk a gun anyhow. Just develop loads that work well in it or trade it to someone who isn't appalled with 3 inch groups at 25 yards. Or maybe a brighter mindset is to consider the fact that in todays world, someone might steal it before you are ready to quit using it, and you'll be happy that you took the best part of it's life before the jerk ripped you off.
When the throat wears enough that accuracy begins to fall off, you can swith to the #9 or even H110 or 296 and get superb accuracy again, with minimal throat wear for many thousands of rounds. By the way, my accuracy standard/requirement from a revolver is not larger groups than one inch at 25 yards, and I'm not likely to keep one very long that won't do half that, when using one of my bullet designs. I get real cranky if I don't see a bullet hole precisely where the sights were when I feel the hammer drop. In other words, if I pull a shot, I want a bullet hole where the sights were when the primer popped or I'll never learn what I'm doing wrong! Accurate handguns teach one to shoot accurately better than any human instructor can ever hope to.