A hearty AMEN to that TN ! ".....quit you like men, be strong." (1Cor 16:13 KJV) "be men, be strong." (Young's literal)
About 26 years ago and being a deacon's wife, my wife was approached by a frantic lady named Judy. Judy was a lady attending church by herself, her husband not being interested in the things of God. It seems Judy's daughter had gone off to college and had been gotten with child by a lowlife, who promptly deserted her. The daughter was about to have an abortion, an Judy asked my wife to counsel her, which my wife did in 2-3 sessions..travelling to Judy's house, some 20 miles from ours.
The daughter (name escapes me) had the child about the very same day our first grandson was born..and without any prior discussion, both boys were named Joshua. A couple years later, the young lady married..this time, choosing a MAN..
Our Joshua has grown to a 26 yr old man we are delighted in, a Marine Plt Sgt committed to Christ, with a beautiful Christian wife. Years have passed, and we've both moved since that other Joshua was saved from the butcher knife and we have not seen nor heard from this family since.
However, we often wonder but what this other Joshua's mother doesn't rejoice often, that she didn't make a choice which would yet haunt her today.
...But I hasten to add, for the woman which has made such a fatal choice; there is forgiveness in the Lord.
There is even forgiveness for any one who was not a " quit you like men" person; but it will take confession, prayer and repentance..