First of all I agree with you guys 100%. Yet this issue is one I have so many torn feeling with.
The thing I remember most is how people used to say the same things we are saying here about the women that dropped their babies off at the front door of a church in a basket. At least those babies had the oppertunity to be taken into a loving home by some parrishioners, and given a chance to have a good life.
Today the lack of guidence in ones life, (Church/religious beliefs) and the fear of prosacution by the local authorities, is the cause of the dumping in dumpsters and toilets.
The cause of babies is something that has been going on since the beginning of time, will never stop, and cannot be stopped. Hormones run rampent in young people, and stronger in some than others. Some young (sometimes older) men take advantage of young women, some young women take advantage of young men. "So that is not going to change". All that can be expected is maybe we can teach the youth growing up today to respect life a bit more and not make the mistakes of throwing life away. If they haven't the resources to take care of the baby, drop the baby off at a hospital, a church, police station, fire station, in a basket on a table in a busy restaurant. Anywhere but a dumpster or toilet.
A major reason for the actions we read about is the recent prosicution of young women who tried to give the baby away. These women knew they did not have the resources to raise a baby. So they did take it to a hospital or church and left it. Then the police made a relentless search for the missing Mom and brought charges against them for baby abandonment. So now rather than leave the baby where it can be found and taken care of, they are thrown away.
I guess what I am trying to say is: Yes the Mom has a lot of blame, but there is enough left over to be spread around to others as well.