This git's kicked around alot, there's ton's of advice and video's out there,
There is a learning curve, I trashed a bunch 308 cases trying different ways and doing it wrong. I'd suggest finding a bunch of range pick-up or scrap brass to experiment with. I found Varmint Al's method and advice the best for me;
http://www.varmintal.net/arelo.htm#Anneal Tried the tempilac stick and it didn't work well, you really can't get enough of the wax/stick on there to
see it change, folks say the liquid works better.
I wait for the dull red in a dark room and it works once you get the hang of it. Then look for the blue tints when finished for consistency. I guess the best advice I found was the blue colored neck should still shine, if it's lost it's shine you've gone too hot.
* clean/tumble the brass
* anneal
* dipping in water or air drying makes no differance, brass does not quench temper like steel.
* then size
For me it's about neck tention and brass life, needs done after 3-4 firings. I can "feel" the button pulling hard through the neck and you can do the pliers test to the neck and find they are indeed getting "harder".