"don't worry bout hurting my feelings and me carrying a grudge". OK, just so I know (lol). And when you posted 'This is where I am', I was confused. I thought you were in Texas....
Anyhow: I know S&W made or remade their Model 1917 but that comes with a 5" bbl. which may be a tad long to stuff into one's belt, but it is a nice retro and is in 45 acp. If said same wore a slim 4" barrel or a 3.5" it would make for a easy shootin' and nice carrying package and probably noticeably lighter in 45 than your own M28. Which might lead me to suggest that if you happen to have a spare "N" frame hanging around you could always have a good shop convert it to 45, you know.. and with a package like that I would opt for a set of custom service panel size Esmerelda grips with a Tyler T-Grip adapter, and in 45, either acp or Colt, one could easily shoot a wheel-gun like that all day long. Just a thought. Good luck.