Hmm, it seems as if this is a first for you, a starting point.
That having been said, the very best starting point is a Marlin 336, in .30-30. It has been the first rifle for millions of new hunters, for excellent reasons, and it has become the end rifle for millions of old hunters, for excellent reasons.
The recoil is not very much, but if you are concerned about it, then just install a hiqh quality recoil pad (Limbsaver or equivalent).
The great thing about the .30-30 is that not only is it available everywhere, but if you go to big box stores in the fall, it is really really cheap compared to other rifle calibers.
The factory ammo in 170 grain bullet is a dynamo, and will stop any pig in its tracks.
The factory ammo in 150 grain bullet is a true 200 yard deer round.
Best yet, there is no reason to reload. The factory ammo is about as close to perfection as you can ask.
Just my thoughts.
Mannyrock