jvs: Relax. What you've got is great. I've toured several professional vineyards and even they don't all do it the same.
As I said, Concords are very forgiving. The piece of land I own and live on, I maintain fairly well, with relatively well organized vines, trees, and bushes.
But the original homestead is still in the family and about 25 acres are open enough for planting things. Several of us have brought in rootings and cuttings, from flowers to fruits, from all over the country, and just set them out to live or die.
About every five or six years, someone will get energetic and go trim & prune, but mostly we've just let nature take its course, and use it as a communal "go see what you can pick if you want it" place. I found where a blue muscadine vine had run on the ground and from shrub to shrub, taking root wherever it wanted to, covering probably 1000 sq ft, and bearing faithfully.
The thing we call the Mustang grape here in Texas will also grow almost anywhere and bears a usable grape; tough skin, not very sweet, but prolific.
If it ain't fun, and takes too much work, it ain't real gardening.