Well, I made the return trip to the urologist, PSA went up to 6.8 from 5.6 in a couple weeks, so now I am headed for the needle biopsy in another 2 weeks.
Work has been forcing me to take my PTO or lose it, so I won't have time built up next month. It really makes me sore as I need sick time for myself now, and the wife is needing a hip replaced. They are making one from Titanium foam right now, and it will hit at the same time as this other stuff.
Apparently, so far, the insurance has paid well, it justs costs me $50 every visit to the doc. Since we are still paying on the wife's cancer bills from the last 3 years any more bills are a worry.
I really hoped I could go another year and get Medicare and a supplement like the wife has this year, Way less premiums and pays better. Also, if I do end up sick, I could draw SS, maybe even disability, and make the payments. The regular insurance is too high to pay without a full time job, that is the only thing keeping me there right now the way they are treating me (33 years, run the shop, and troubleshoot/redesign fix everything that goes wrong). All I want is to be able to get things done right now and then have paid time when I have to nurse the wife, and possibly be laid up myself.
One option is to ignore the PSA stuff for a year and see what comes of it then. I have already decided on the "short" course if it is the agressive cancer, other wise I will take the least intrusive treatment. I can't take a chance on going bankrupt and leaving a destitute widow; right now she will have my retirement funds and life insurance, apparently you cant keep any of it and get any help.
All you who replied on my first post on this really helped me get over the depression I had then. Thanks.. I still fear that the light at end of the tunnel we thought we saw when the radiation ended and we got out from under the crushing insurance bills is really a train coming the other way.