Well a big thanks to larry for putting the firing pin idea in my head! Definitely one of the more simple fixes... and so far it works.
Took the firing pin out, threw it in my drill and went to town shaping it. Original shape chucked up.
First I tried a polishing stone, but of course, firing pin hard as hell, and it cut into the stone, ha.
So then I decided to go with a fine steel file, which worked wonderfully.
And the end result, slight taper on the end.
So to do my testing, took a bunch of primed empties. Pre modification - one cylinder, 1/5 misfired. Post modification - three cylinders, no misfires. I'm a big fan of 100% results. Threw in some 45 colt primed empties, and no problems there either. (Primers backed out a bit, but they didnt have load for pressure to hold them in, threw a couple loaded rounds down the barrel to double check and all was good)
Very simple and it worked. I'm happy. Time to quit screwin off and go shootin! I recommend you all do the same.
Thanks again Larry.